I wrote this last week before I decided to stop myself from looking.
I have been having a great week. I’m happy and my heart is healing. So then what possessed me to check out P’s facebook page? Seeing a family picture with her fake smiling as always. It’s completely looney tunes/bonkers! She’s one of those people that pretends everything is perfect, even with her marriage on the rocks, her daughter being thrown out of 8th grade, etc. As long as it looks good to others, who cares if everyone’s miserable?
I detest fakeness. Just be how you really are! Don’t pretend to be all sweet and happy in front of others, then be a miserable bitch to your family.
Why can’t people own their crazy, good and bad? When did being honest and authentic go out of style? I love to laugh and am generally a happy go lucky person. But I won’t pretend to be happy if I’m upset, angry or miserable.
He looked uncomfortable and not happy. But not as miserable as he has been. I guess pretending everything is wonderful isn’t as easy as it used to be. I actually feel sorry for the poor bastard.
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He admitted it was all an act n he has been miserable for 7 months.
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I hate Facebook, it’s my biggest trigger.
His wife shared the first photo of them together in 14 years this week. First photo ever of her smiling. And then she made it her cover photo. All while I was online (we’re friends, she can see when I’m around).
I’ve stayed away from Fakebook for the past 3 days and am feeling much better for it.
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That’s good, yes staying off fb helps. But ur friends with her???
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Yep… Adam is a friend of the family, so I know his wife and am friends with her on FB. Our daughters go to the same school and are also friends….
I would never have chosen this situation in a million years…
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Yikes I bet!
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I just found yours today and am enjoying reading it. Thanks for sharing it.
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I looked at her facebook page in September 2 months after it ended. I then saw things and started to find out how much she lied to me. All the lies and pity stories I fell for. So putting on a pretend face is bad but lying about who you are and deceiving others to get them to fall for you is far worse.
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Putting on an act is lying about who you are. I don’t know your story and your blog is blank.
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I have never written it. I would be way to detailed and I feel I would be to long.
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Too long is better than leaving it blank
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Facebook is the devil! I promised myself that I would stop peeking. There is no benefit. It only gets me going.
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It’s been over a week and it’s definitely helping.
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