My husband totally pissed me off today. He was so angry and rude that I wasn’t ready to clean and run errands right when he wanted. I don’t mind him being annoyed. Everyone has a right to their feelings and to express those feelings.
But it was the way he showed his anger, stomping around and mumbling like a jackass. It felt like I was watching a child have a temper tantrum lol. The man is 47 years old!
I tried to talk to him rationally and maturely but it did not go smoothly. I did nothing to deserve the way he treated me and I told him so. His behavior really hurt and upset me.
I think it has more to do with the fact that we still are not having sex and I am just about fed up. I have tried everything and am just tired of feeling constantly rejected.
He cleaned the tub / shower, which was great but I do it all the time! I don’t expect a parade for it, geesh. I honestly think sometimes he expects me to cook and clean like a 50s housewife while also working a full-time job lol.
Both of our Moms were stay at home housewives but our Dads were able to support the family. And when we were in high school both women went back to school and work, eventually becoming successful in their own right. Can’t have it both ways dude, especially with a chronic illness.
He apologized but it was really half-assed and only because he knows he’s in the doghouse. He should really think of building on a new wing if he continues to act this way lol.
a mumbler, eh? my wife is a mumbler, too. at times, she talks just loud enough that i can hear her but not loud enough that i can understand what she is saying. then, i get tired of it and go to another room. suddenly, she starts to mumble louder. even though i’m in the other room, she still mumbles loud enough so i can hear her but not loud enough so i understand what she is saying. i could probably move to the next country with the same results. frustrating.
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He’s not quite that bad but yes it was very frustrating
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Men. I’m quite lucky when it comes to my hubs–but yes he has expectation and if it does not go his way then I must hear it. Most times I ignore him and keep quiet… he always ends up coming with his tail between his legs saying sorry. Lol.
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Yes luckily this is not a usual occurrence and that’s what he did lol
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Does the doghouse come with Wi-Fi?!
😉
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Yes but not cable lol
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Haha!
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I can’t even begin to describe living with a man, my husband for that matter. Just drives me insane! He expects me to be that 50s housewife, and be the perfect slut ! I just absolutely abhor picking up after him. I am not your slave or maid.
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I have the opposite problem in terms of sex. I had no problem picking up after P because the sex was so awesome. Give me a few orgasms and I’m a lot more agreeable lol
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My husband never gave me an orgasm in his life! And never will. He’s too selfish first of all and number two his attitude I cannot take anymore and I can keep going down the list…
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As a guy and a husband, I’m sorry it had ended up this way to make you feel as you do! Not all of us are like that!
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Thanks for your comments vic. I understand that not all men are my husband. I learned that the hard way. I don’t hate men. I’m just placed in a bad situation.
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Thank god for that Vic 🙂
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Holy crap! Really? That is unforgivable.
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Yes. I always had to fake them. You can read my first post, “First Time” and how I lost my virginity and you’ll understand.
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I think I did but it was so terribly sad. I cannot even imagine xoxo 😦
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Yes it was sad. It was so sad I told no one. I pretended it was someone else, not me.
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Oh sweetie I’m sorry that happened to you. Why would you stay??
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Because I believed I was used goods and had sex outside of marriage 😦
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Awww really? Well I won’t be wearing a big red A on my sweater anytime soon sweetie and neither should you.
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Thanks emmagc. 🙂 Thanks for saying that. I really needed to hear it or (see it rather).
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But I also can’t imagine being forced. That would be horrific.
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Sighs, that’s why I can never say no, if I do he forces me. Why do you think I had affairs? At least I can say yes or no to them.
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U need this thing called a louisville slugger Evelyn 😉
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I’m sorry I’m not sure what “Louisville slugger” means.
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Lol it’s a baseball bat
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a new wing or a new doghouse
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A new wing OF the doghouse 😉
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LMAO. 😉
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