Enough is enough! Stop your hate! Get over what YOUR HUSBAND and some woman did to you already!
Don’t you realize how pathetic even your “friends” on here think you are??? U are not a crusader, you are not joan of arc! U are just a sad sack of a woman wasting her time spreading nastiness and misery like an Elf from Hell!
DIAL BACK YOUR CRAZY LADY! I have had quite enough of your judgements and your sick, twisted delusional bullshit. YOU ARE A BULLY, A COWARD AND NOBODY LIKES YOU because of your vile, negative ways. You judge me? Whatever made you think you have the right to judge me? LOL That is absurd. You need professional help!
You need to worry more about yourself, healing and love in your marriage. Worry about your cheating husband (although if this is how u act it is NO WONDER) and keeping him home k? And stop abusing strangers with your holier than thou crap.
If you cannot see that I am a good, kind loving person who cares and goes out of her way for others, you are just blinded by your hate and vengeance.
You are an ugly, cruel creature and I really do pity you. I will pray for you.
SAY NO TO TROLLS!!!!
Haters just mean that you have a fan club.
If she is so small that she needs you it really shows how big you are.
Regards,
Clifford T Mitchem
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Nutrition + Fitness = Health
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A fan club? Lol That’s funny thnx 😉
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Ahh… Nephi the cow has chosen your pasture for now, huh? Well, look up a bit b/c her hatred has waned some lately. She has a mental disorder and often treats it with pills or alcohol. I think this is why sometimes her posts are “lazy” and redundant….. too much of one or the other “medication”. She is truly bizarre and nutto indeed. She has an expensive law degree, yet chooses to stay unemployed, allowing herself to troll more with her hatred. It is mainly against cheaters, but she has attacked suicidal bloggers, eating disorder bloggers and the like… everyone is fair game to her bitter hatred. I feel sorry for her children (even the one that died before having to face her hatred) and her husband (Like CL said – no wonder he cheated). Either way… you be you and fuck her! 🙂
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Thanks, I appreciate that! She just spends her time harassing others? All that hate and negativity, yikes! I just can’t fathom how damaged a soul must be to be capable of such depravity. It seems like a compulsion for her. It’s bizarre and sad. But it is just plain evil to attack suicidal bloggers. Yes, screw her. LOL
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Yes… that is truly all she does since she is jobless and has too many issues to a) get a job b) WANT to get a job. I call her a cow b/c she tends to graze in the fields and then comes to the trough of bloggers when she needs to feed.
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It’s just such a waste.
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She is in search of meat now. She’s done with grass. Lol
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Lol
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Am I right ? Insatiable! XD
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I read herb comments on your blog and I was impressed not only how you tolerate her but that you dismantle her by striking the hammer onto her nail heads. She is preemptively blocked from commenting on my blog. I don’t suffer fools.
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Thanks Miguel. I do have her blacklisted but u can’t block a user can u?
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Sorry, blacklisted is what WP terms for blocking a user from commenting. No, anyone can read a non-private blog or a non-password-protected post. It would be nice to block someone entirely.
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Yes n it’s a little bizarre that we cannot isn’t it?
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Yes. But it is par for free blogging.
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Very true! 🙂
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I really don’t care if a mentally and emotionally unstable substance and human abuser reads my blog. She cannot taint my posts her eyes. She cannot foul them with her words. I feel nothing for her, not anger, pity or bitterness. I am indifferent about her, entirely.
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I usually am. Except when I wasn’t lol
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Perfect.
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🙂
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Wont let me approve
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What do you mean?
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Nothing just was having trouble with the WordPress app on my phone lol
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Ah yes…the apps are marginal at best.
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I’m seeing that 😦
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Yes, you can… I did it…
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How?
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Who’s Herb?
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I think he meant her silly lol
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Haha…”herb” would be my large thumb that gets too close to other keys on the soft touch keyboard.
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Lol
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She has actually touched mine as well. I end up throwing out both my post and comment into the trash because she contaminated it.
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Please don’t give ANYONE that kind of power Ev.
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It’s still in the trash sitting there…
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Don’t throw out ur thoughts for anyone.
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I’m not throwing out my thoughts. I just hate the fact she touched it. Made it dirty.
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Oh don’t get me started on her expertise. Apparently, bipolar disorder is made up. She did a big post on my site about how her husband’s AP claimed to be bipolar therefore it was a cheater disease and completely fictional. Personally, I blocked her because I was afraid of the impact her uneducated opinion would have on my readers who struggle with BPD.
And seriously. How does she keep us all straight? Spreadsheets? Notecards pinned on the wall? I have an image of a psychopath sitting at her desk, checking off boxes of which sites she’s visited.
She’s one disturbed woman.
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LMAO @ that image of spreadsheet! Cheater disease? Is that like cooties? Yes extremely disturbed.
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Yes! Her hair is unkempt, her clothing stained and smelly – her whole look is disheveled as she giggles with each idiotic comment she posts! She has no fingernails left due to chewing them down to the cuticle, her chair is stained with urine, and her kids are locked out of the room because they continue to bother her for food.
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I just see the crazy eyes.
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“I’m not going to be IGNORED, Dan..”
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Oh no there is actually one OW that I have heard of that is really like that!!! Whoresnotwelcome. She’s awesomely kind and sweet. Her husband’s ex OW is totally a bunny boiler! It’s insane!
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I had one too..
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If only I am able to draw this image out and post it up….she’s insatiable, no food left!
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You can do it! Good luck 😉
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But I can’t draw!?!?!
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I’m confused lol
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Lol..I meant I’m not a professional artist.
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So?
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I can barely draw stick figures lol
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She is a very bitter woman and she has been around for years, she reminds me of my mother and I feel sorry for her. I just let her comments go to spam though she does compare herself to being the best wife but she is so bitter and she needs intensive therapy otherwise she will never be able to become anything but “Elf from hell” I am surprised she is still out there. I thought she had left the blog world.
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She’s still out there LOL! I enjoy how she says she’s doing nothing wrong, just telling THE TRUTH!!!!! LOL Um, who’s truth? She seems pretty locked into the Elf from Hell position. Her poor kids! Can you imagine her at parties???? Wow!
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WOW!!! I am in shock that she is still trolling around… everyone knows her and her mean ways. I think there is two others too but they will not step it up or maybe they left her…. I feel sorry for her kids and her husband, I just hope the husband wakes up soon before he realizes the damage he is causing by staying with her… I would hate to attend any parties with the “Elf” I will definitely be eaten alive and I would become the show… LOL…LOL….
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Yup she is lol. Still? How long has this bs been going on?
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For at least two years with Me!!!
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Yowza!
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Yes, her venom runs deep and I do not blame her husband for cheating on her… sorry, but this is one woman I do not feel bad for…
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Makes u wonder. Like what came first the chicken or the egg? Lol The venom or the cheating?
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2 years? Damn, she’s hell bent on vengeance!
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Obviously stuck in grief and misery.
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For ETERNITY!!! and BEYOND!!!
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Lol
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She’s a show alright. Psycho elf witch show with a complete clown elf costume.
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I sooo don’t want to see that show Ev lol. How are u today sweetie? ?
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We get front row seats and she’s making a fool outta herself. Our joker! Lol..I’m feeling better, how about your darling ?
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I”m really good and very happy it’s Friday lol.
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That’s good to hear 🙂
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How are you today?
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I’m good. the weekend is finally here!!
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Funny the short weeks are the craziest lol
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Yes indeed they are ! Any plans ?
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Tonight I am relaxing. Then tomorrow a family bbq for my nephew’s 18th Birthday. What about u?
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Nice. Nothing much my weekends are usually with my kids. That’s my identity, I’m a mother..hehe..
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It’s a great identity!
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♡ your new gravatar btw 😉
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Thnx Ev! I love getting pedicures lol
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I’ve never had a pedicure…how are they ?
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Omg seriously? Really wonderful and relaxing!
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Nope. I only had a manicure once..
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Have you ever gone for a spa day?
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Nope. Only thing I ever did was a facial.
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I go once a year. Usually a gift from hubby. Spa manicure, pedicure, facial, massage, body wrap, lunch, hair, and reflexology. It’s so awesome lol
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That sounds so heavenly! My husband sucks at gifts..gives me stuff I hate. Lol
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Um yeah u kind of have to give men hints. They’re men lol
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Um..no..my husband thinks I love flowers and gives them to me everytime. And I’m not in love with him. Why flowers ?
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I love flowers! LOL except carnations cause they remind me of funerals
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And white flowers too! I just have an version to flowers because it’s only one sided thing for him. Maybe one day, who knows..not anytime soon.
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So tell him NO FLOWERS lol
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If I say that it will BREAK his already broken heart.
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Huh? Why is his heart broken?
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He’s heartbroken because of his emotional affair I had once upon a time ago..that’s why all this abuse heaped on me
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Wow even a cheater doesn’t deserve abuse!
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I didn’t know any better Em. I thought I deserved it :(*
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I have a friend going through something similar. She thought cause she cheated, he could say and do whatever forever. That’s sooo not healthy and will not repair a marriage.
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It pretty much went down the drain after the emotional affair. :(*
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I mean my emotional affair, not his sorry.
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I figured that Ev! But while he has right to be angry, upset, etc, he doesn’t have any right to mentally or physically abuse you!
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I’ve only started to realize that most recently. I didn’t understand or know any better. Because in his eyes I was no longer pure,virginal.
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He seems to put a lot of stock in purity and virginity. It’s dysfunctional and sick. This is not 1800 and he needs to evolve and stop being so sexually repressed with the masturbation is bad n sex toys are cheating, etc. It’s harmful.
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I can’t change him, Em. You think I haven’t tried? He made me feel like im the adulteress. I’m the one with the problem using sex toys and according to him masturbation is me having sex with myself! Made it sound like I’m the psycho !
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He’s sexually repressed.
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He’s definitely one of those many labels…
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Yup 😉
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I emailed ya
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Ur confusing me Ev. He practically rapes you n abuses you n his heart is broken?!?
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I meant I don’t want to hurt him anymore because I have to maintain his mood. I don’t want him suspicious of me. I have to protect myself and if it means lying then so be it.
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Oh ok, yes protect yourself.
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Yes because I always felt guilty lying but I’ve realized I have no choice 😦
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Does he abuse the kids in any way Ev?
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No. He loves the kids. Just blames me for the kids not caring about him :(*
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Well I’m glad he’s good to them at least.
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I just don’t like it when he turns them against me. Usually he does this whenever he returns.
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That seems mean.
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Yes. Imagine your own daughter beating you up because your husband thought it’s funny that you’re the “fake mother.”
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What? Fake mother? And why would your daughter beat u up?
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Because my idiotic husband told my daughter I’m not “real” that she’ll have to beat me up so the real mother will come out.
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Yikes he’s a real asshole. How old was your daughter?
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5 or 6 ? He still does this once in a blue moon..
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Sick!
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Yes, indeed….
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Yes, among many things..
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No. He loves the kids. Just blames me because they don’t love him :(*
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and I agree with you. The fact that she drove her husband into the arms of another woman seems pretty predicable if her posts are an indication of her personality.
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I honestly never ever imagined I would think that but yes. After seeing all that negativity, self-righteousness and a delusional belief that she is 100% correct in every way? It had to push a spouse over the edge??
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Wouldn’t you think that since the majority of her comments don’t show up and are spam deleted, that she would just quit???
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That’s why it seems obsessive compulsive.
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Yes, she’s been like an affair-blog troll for a while. I just routinely deleted her and blocked her posts, sending them directly to spam. She’s a very very sad and bitter person. She needs psychological help.
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She really does. This cannot possibly be good for her or a positive influence in her life. I just saw all the messages she has sent that go directly to spam ALL AT ONCE and frankly I was shocked and appalled at the ugliness and lack of any empathy or compassion. It was also pretty late and I just reacted lol. I do not hate anyone, but I vehemently dislike bullies 🙂
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I believe it was on married in love with a married woman’s blog where she said she had a mental illness, drinks too much, and couldn’t work. That makes me feel bad for her in a sick, twisted way. In my case, she loves to defend my partner’s cheating wife and doesn’t see the irony in that.
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She emailed me, equating herself with rape victims and hit and run victims! I do feel extremely bad for someone with that much hate in their heart and time on their hands lol
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Having been cheated on and surviving both rape and watching my husband struggle with PTSD from being run over, I can say none of the three are like the others. None of them.
I used to read her spam comments, but then I started to see the signs of a mentally ill person who doesn’t take meds, and gave up all together. Now I do a mass delete all without reading. I can’t, in good faith, encourage her behavior when it’s so mentally unbalanced.
Hell, even when she saw me as a ‘good guy’ she attacked my position to stay with my husband. You can’t win for trying with her.
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As a betrayed spouse, yes it is incredibly traumatizing n u do feel violated. But rape? Hit by car? That’s apples n oranges.
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Yes, she’s all over the place and gets a lot of things incorrect. I do feel very sorry for her husband and kids. But I do not like bullies and that is what she has been doing to myself and many others. When I looked and saw ALL those messages!!!! OMG, it was disgusting, hateful and just wrong lol.
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oh Lord! I roll my eyes at these people.
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Thanks for this piece, Em. Elf from hell is a good one! I just call her the psycho witch lol…
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She only sees what she wants and talks out of her as*!
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If she only has one…~_^ !
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Elf from hell indeed. There are no surprises her husband cheated. I compiled a list of my spam comments once. Its actually hilarious.
There are some little spies I know in Melbourne. One day they will come up with something concrete and we will stop her. No guts troll who hides behind her keyboard wont be able to hide forever!
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What is most scary is she actually believes she’s “doing God’s work punishing the evildoers!!” Batshit crazy party of 1? Your table of 1 is ready lol
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Felicity, I have an idea. How about complying her comments into wordle and making it as a post ?
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Why give that kind of attention to the hate? I should have just deleted. Screw her n her ugliness.
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It’s to teach her a lesson. She needs to understand there is a whole BUNCH of us versus one witch.
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No sweetie, we’re not a bunch of villagers with pitchforks and she IS NOT Joan of Arc!! I just want the bullying to stop.
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Do you think one email you posted up will stop her? Many, many bloggers have done the same as you Em. And stilll she persists, she needs to learn a lesson like the little school girl she is.
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It was more for me, she doesn’t matter.
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Of course not, she’s just a psycho witch. Don’t let control you either. That’s what she wants to elicit emotions from you. The more you are upset, the more she thrives on it- just like an addiction. She feeds on us. She hungers for our feelings, sick isn’t it ?
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Ur absolutely right. I will just let it go.
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Let’s sing the song, “Let it Go” to celebrate! ♡
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Lol yes plz
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Do you want more of her delusion? The best one was when she told me her and her husband kissed every day for the past 14 years, even during his affair for 15 secs. At least. HA! Ok then…. 😉 Twit. Lol
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I was really concerned cause she actually believes all her bullshit. It’s kind of scary lol
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Hi Felicity. Yes more of her delusion is good. Her own words are even better. I see she thinks her husband is so in love with her, yea sure….lol
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Well stated! And I love the “elf from hell” characterization. Have a great Thursday.
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Thanks Janelle! U too xo
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Elf from hell! Lol. That made me laugh hard.
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Im done acting like she’s Voldemort from the Harry Potter books lol. She who must not be named. Screw that. A bully is a bully. She’s no victim.
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Off to bed. Have a great day tomorrow kc!
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You too. Night night Xx
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If anyone can figure out her true identity from her IP address and email address, please let me know. I’d love to out her. Bet she’s a weird, butt-ugly looking broad too. hehe
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