Love is more black and white than we like to tell ourselves. Don’t allow anyone to keep you trapped in the “promise” of the gray area. The bottom line is: If they love you, TRULY love you, they’ll do whatever it takes to be with you. There won’t be excuses or doubts or fears or hesitation. Love is ACTION. Everything else is just words.
~Mandy Hale – The Single Woman
This is what I have to keep reminding myself. No, we cannot choose who we fall in love with. But we can choose to keep going back to those that break us down with empty words and unfulfilled promises OR we can love ourselves enough to realize we don’t need anyone to be happy. We think we cannot live without them, but we can. We just have to accept what we can’t change.
P keeps calling me, at home and at work and on my cell. I have blocked him as much as I can, but at work I just don’t answer private calls. He says he’s getting separated. I will believe that when I see it lol. But even so, it still has nothing to do with me.
As for me, I am going to continue to go where the love is.