Here’s another repost. Cleaning out my closet today. I’m not really sure what I’m going to find lol. Have a great day!
So very true! Sadly, this keeps many people stuck miserable for years.
It is hard to let go of the idealized image we had of the abuser. Letting go of the perfect partner we once believed we had, is a process, not a single act of will.
The narcissist or psychopath that seduced you into their lair, got into your mind in a way that normal people never do.
The narcissist is especially gifted at getting into your head and learning many things about you. They learn what your ideal is of the perfect partner.
They are able to transform themselves, cleverly and accurately, into the partner of your deepest dreams. They play their role of this perfect partner until they have you devoted to them.
They create a constant connection with you, that makes you feel like you are an important, desired, part of their lives.
They get your happy chemicals flowing, like dopamine.
The constant contact creates an increased need…
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