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I’ve been reading so many post about narcissist people. I have always sworn that Loser was one of the biggest narcissists who ever pranced down the street but is he really? True, he used me to bear his children (although they were the wrong sex, unfortunately), I ran the business (that he called a marriage), I took care of the children (which allowed him to go to bars after work every night) and he basically ignored all of us. BUT….he has had other women on the side. He is with his WTC now and seems to be on top of the world. When I asked him if he talked to her the same way he talked to us, he shrugged and said “probably” (which means no way.) Maybe he wasn’t a narcissist at all. Maybe he was just looking for trash and didn’t find it until he had destroyed so many lives.
His WTC pumps up his ego and punishes him if he doesn’t “toe the line.” i never did. So, again….is he really a narcissist?
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I don’t know if he is or isn’t. What does WTC mean? I hope you are focused on finding your happiness. He’ll get his eventually. I know more than a few people who look like they are happy n have it all but they’re miserable. Hugs to u!
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Ummmm….”woman that counts”….LOL. When it comes down to it, I couldn’t care less if he’s happy or sad or miserable or on top of the world. He’s scum. Just knowing that and having other people know that…is smile-worthy.
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Woman that counts? I don’t get it.
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Well, you’ve got your OW (other women), WS (whore slut), Pigshit (what it says, I guess) and WTC. These are monikers that betrayed spouses have assigned to the “tramps” that destroyed their marriage.
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Wow, I was a betrayed spouse years ago but I focused on my cheating husband rather than the OW. I guess maybe it would’ve been different if he hadn’t already ended the affair when she angrily called to tell me. But he was who I married and who I was most angry at. I’ve honestly only looked her up once on Facebook in all these years.
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I’m not on Facebook and I wouldn’t waste my time looking for either Loser or his WTC. I don’t care what those people do.
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That’s good n healthy. How are you?
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Hanging in…or trying to. On a roller coaster with young son 😦
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The one who was too drunk to get into rehab?
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Yep. He seems to be a little better now. He said he wasn’t drinking anymore. It just breaks my heart.
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I’m sorry 😦
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Thank you.
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I don’t know, I think the first one is a little off. If you don’t have any expectations in a relationship you have no standards for how you should be treated. I can love someone all day long, but I love myself enough not to put up with too many expectations not being met.
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No it’s actually extremely true. Narcissists don’t think of people as people but as objects that give them what they need. It’s very cold n detached. Also yes we all have expectations in a relationship but yours n mine are reasonable and can be met. Nothing is ever good enough for the narcissist.
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I agree with that. I just thought the meme sounded a little like we shouldn’t place expectations on people unless we are a narcissist. A little healthy self-worth isn’t narcissistic until you manipulate and love yourself to the point it prevents you from loving others.
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No it was more about narcs see people as objects of supply not people. And they set impossible expectations then abuse you when u can’t possibly meet those expectations. Healthy self-worth is vitally important. It’s those that are lacking in self-esteem that are bigger targets of narcissists.
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True. I know those people and was once one myself.
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You were once what? A narc or had low self-esteem?
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A target with low self esteem.
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Sorry to hear that. Glad u aren’t anymore 🙂
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Me too!
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🙂
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